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True Communication

My heart is simply bursting with delight and joy….at 60 I have finally found someone I can truly communicate with, be fully vulnerable with, and they “get” me!

I’m a very “what’s the problem, so we can fix it” type person

All those endless years and heartache over the silent treatment I’ve received….it’s now dead

I’ve grown up and learnt how to really communicate….wow!

Funny thing is I’ve always believed I was a good communicator…..truth was…..I wasn’t really truthful, because I never felt safe….

What a beautiful space, when two vulnerable souls, turn up and tune in….aware and awake.

I thank you with all my being for listening to understand me…..and not just listening to reply….

It simply leads to being held, respected, cared for….this is…..the road travelled to love…..seeing the divine in each other, honouring that, being gentle with each other, yet speaking your truth…living in the now and exploring the world together.

I am removing…..one by one…. all the barriers I have built up……against love….may the flow…take me through the oceans of possibilities…into the essence of you….then us…hand in hand……heart to heart

Thank you for you

Thank you….Thank you….Thank you ❤

Building Community


You need look no further than the people who surround you.

Bond with them, join them, re-connect.

Give up hidden judgements and grievances that stop you bonding.

Let communication replace them; start healing your lost bonding of the past.

Allow yourself to be inspired, experience vision, hear the voice of Mother Nature, connect and be a part of the Oneness.

Honesty of Spirit

This weekend I have been reminded deeply, down to the very bones of my ancestors, the importance of honest communication and negotiation. What an even more amazing world we would live in if we were more authentic, followed our hearts to the matter of things, and even more so followed our gut instincts.

As the wheel turns its face towards the decent, the movement from Water to Earth, we find the place in between…the mud, where the elements of water and earth unite.

Sometimes when we get stuck in our past roles, it’s like being in the mud, it’s hard to get out, it acts like a suction on the soles of our feet. In this mud our vision can be blurred, instead of the honesty required we may play out the role of our inner hurt child, pretend, hide, maybe even lie and create chaos, instead of growing up, stepping out of the mud and saying exactly what we mean.

At Autumn we are shown a gift, all is maturing in nature around us, and so can we. We can be adult enough to speak our minds, face to face to others. If we miss this moment, like the fruits, if not harvested, they rot, and so does a part of us.

This is a time when you can embrace the intimacy that you can explore with another heart to heart, take a risk, or be forever held at arms distance from your own truth.

If you are in the mud, if your journey has you in isolation or loneliness, now is that space, that moment of stepping forward into the importance and maturity of honest communication.

When we make a decision to step out of the mud, we clear our own vision, and we can release fear and worry, as the pathway ahead becomes so much lighter under foot.

Happy travels to honesty of spirit!