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True Communication

My heart is simply bursting with delight and joy….at 60 I have finally found someone I can truly communicate with, be fully vulnerable with, and they “get” me!

I’m a very “what’s the problem, so we can fix it” type person

All those endless years and heartache over the silent treatment I’ve received….it’s now dead

I’ve grown up and learnt how to really communicate….wow!

Funny thing is I’ve always believed I was a good communicator…..truth was…..I wasn’t really truthful, because I never felt safe….

What a beautiful space, when two vulnerable souls, turn up and tune in….aware and awake.

I thank you with all my being for listening to understand me…..and not just listening to reply….

It simply leads to being held, respected, cared for….this is…..the road travelled to love…..seeing the divine in each other, honouring that, being gentle with each other, yet speaking your truth…living in the now and exploring the world together.

I am removing…..one by one…. all the barriers I have built up……against love….may the flow…take me through the oceans of possibilities…into the essence of you….then us…hand in hand……heart to heart

Thank you for you

Thank you….Thank you….Thank you ❤



A young arabic man I share philosophy with into the wee hours via phone for over a year now, texted me this morning to ask me what I was doing, I replied “Today I am romancing a new beautiful limited edition book from Canada…How I long to lay in tall field grasses, on a rug, with a beloved, sharing verses and divining our very souls.”

( the book is Aurore By Gabriel McCaughry)

He then said “sounds intimate?” To which I replied “I thrive on intimacy”

He asked “What kind of a connection?” I replied “Every level”

He said “True Intimacy” “What are a few qualities you put in that?” I answered with thoughtfulness “Vulnerability, truth, love, beauty, and my submission.”

He replied “Love is varied and so is beauty, but I get the others. I like them also”

I responded “that is why I share my intimate self with you, over the phone, even though we have never met, and I don’t even know what you look like.”

He then said “I think our minds are undefinable”